You know, I wasn't going to comment on this since I don't actually have a journal of my own, so I don't get the whole "friends-cut" concept (I'm guessing it makes your journal private?) but to be honest, you have said things in the past that are pretty offensive, even if you don't realize it. There was an entry about Dancing with the Stars where you glibly mentioned that someone might "convert you to overweight girls" I read awhile ago (while looking for the latest 24 dish). Do you have any idea how rude and ignorant that made you sound? I frankly was offended, and I'm not even your friend! That and the gay-bashing made me pretty uncomfortable reading your journal, which is why I stopped commenting for awhile. But I digress.
These "friends" on LJ: are they really your friends, anyway? Or is "friend" just a subjective term that LJ uses to title the people who read your journal and whose journal you read? Because if it's the latter, then maybe you're putting too much faith in the people who have friended you. I don't think adding someone to your list makes them your friend instantly, and deleting someone probably doesn't mean they hate you! People drift apart online just like they drift apart offline too -- maybe you just don't have a lot on common, or talk anymore, etc?
Anyway, I've (for the most part) enjoyed reading your journal. You made me laugh, so keep that up.
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Date: 2008-01-29 11:36 pm (UTC)These "friends" on LJ: are they really your friends, anyway? Or is "friend" just a subjective term that LJ uses to title the people who read your journal and whose journal you read? Because if it's the latter, then maybe you're putting too much faith in the people who have friended you. I don't think adding someone to your list makes them your friend instantly, and deleting someone probably doesn't mean they hate you! People drift apart online just like they drift apart offline too -- maybe you just don't have a lot on common, or talk anymore, etc?
Anyway, I've (for the most part) enjoyed reading your journal. You made me laugh, so keep that up.